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Post by Onishiba on Oct 13, 2008 15:25:47 GMT -5
Hello, people. I didn't know where to put this, and probably will lock it tomorrow or something, but, finally, after how many years...? Eh, doesn't matter. It was long time. A few people (Kayorei, pyrowall, and some others) knew about my real gender.
Now, that something changed in my life - my gender - I will tell you about it. In all honesty. Most of you probably won't understand it, but yea, that's how it is. In fact, me saying that I was neither male nor female was right - because I've been both. A hermaphrodite. I've been gone for ca. a week in August. That was when I have been operated. After nearly 21 years of my life as someone in between, someone being prejudged by offices and all, I've decided to get a "normal" gender.
From now on, Fay is male. And Fay is gay, as well.
Just to clarify: My name always has been male, and I was raised as a boy (hence some slips with "he"), however, I wasn't until now.
So, yay male Fay. o.o
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Post by Foozdude on Oct 13, 2008 15:39:23 GMT -5
Glad to hear you've finally decided your gender - and simultaneously, your sexuality.
... not much else I can say here that would otherwise be redundant to conversations on Windows Live Messenger.
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Post by Crawdaunt PWNS! on Oct 13, 2008 19:35:50 GMT -5
Hmmm. I guess I understand why didn't you want to tell your gender. I guess not everyone is like most of us here, and accept people who are ''different'' (Being both doesn't make you different in any ways) I'm glad you finally told us your gender. And gay or not, you're still the same ol' Fay. I'm happy I won't have to call you a ''it'' ever again
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Post by Zettamiles1 on Oct 13, 2008 19:47:40 GMT -5
It WAS suprising! That option never came up in my mind. Well, it has, and I am shocked. Good news is it seems you got what you wanted, so congrats!
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Post by Bardpado on Oct 14, 2008 6:48:16 GMT -5
Not too shocked really...
I'd quote what Kevin Mask told Lord Flash/Marsman in his battle against Conrad Turbinski, but it would be... well... to cliche and probably boring.
Well, the conspiracy is out and the answer given... We can finally put this to rest after a good 2 years.
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Post by Barrell volt on Oct 14, 2008 9:41:12 GMT -5
I had no idea that this was the case Fay. I have to say that you admitting something this personal over the internet was likely quite a difficult thing to do. All I have to say is that I actually thought you were a girl all this time 0.0. Still in my opinion whether your gay, lesbian or whatever your still a normal person and shouldn't be treated like, (dare I really say it) crap, just because you are different. Meh I think this will likely bring the boards a little closer.
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Post by Onishiba on Oct 14, 2008 10:23:14 GMT -5
Still in my opinion whether your gay, lesbian or whatever your still a normal person and shouldn't be treated like, (dare I really say it) crap, just because you are different. I'm not whatever, I'm a homosexual male. =P And I've never been treated like crap, just different and obviously it was uncomfortable for others as well as for me. Thanks everyone, tho.
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Post by ShyGuyAvenger on Oct 14, 2008 10:32:34 GMT -5
*tackles hugs Fay* You already know what I have to say about it :3
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Post by Sights on Oct 14, 2008 11:49:10 GMT -5
Wow. Fay, let me just say it takes a lot of guts to say what you just said, especially over the internet.
Just remember, it doesn't matter what you are, as long as you're a good person at heart. Which you are. Fay, I salute you, and I'm not just saying that.
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Post by Crawdaunt PWNS! on Oct 14, 2008 19:20:56 GMT -5
I've been both. A hermaphrodite. Just remembered... when I used to talk to Kainmaster, he never tried to figure out your gender (although he did call you a it and a she a few times) and always claimed you were a hermaphrodite. Did he know, or was it pure coicidence?
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Post by DivineAll on Oct 14, 2008 19:43:39 GMT -5
I'm completely neutral about the situation. Although, I do admit that I didn't know that Fay was a hermaphrodite. I always kinda thought that he was gay. Nailed the board right on that one, eh? Anyways, I can now honestly say that Fay is the first hermaphrodite that I've met... online that is.
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Post by TeknoSpazz on Oct 14, 2008 19:50:18 GMT -5
Congratulations, Fay. Fay=he, and I've seen it slip sometimes. Including some from Fay ithimself. It caught me by suprise that you actually just came out about it! But hey. It was your choice, and I agree with pretty much everyone above me: Whether you're male/female/hemaphrodite(spell?), and gay or straight, it doesn't matter. No one would care except maybe Rekai, but he's gone now and we don't have to worry about that. Welcome to the known genders, Fay!
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Post by Onishiba on Oct 15, 2008 1:10:29 GMT -5
Did he know, or was it pure coicidence? Latter. Thanks everyone else. :>
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Post by Bardpado on Oct 15, 2008 6:31:50 GMT -5
Guts got you this far... I guess guts also got you that respect... I envy you now.
Personally, I don't really feel good about sexual discrimination. Well, just this afternoon, well, it happened over a conversation on "gay" people.
I guess now I have something to tell him to make him respect those guys more... hopefully.
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Post by Hot-Hit on Oct 15, 2008 9:36:12 GMT -5
Well, I guessed the gay guy thing... But what I didn't see coming was being previously both genders! How did that even happen? (Don't answer that, there are possibly children reading)
I think I can understand why you chose to be gay, but I don't want to know the truth, this is a personal matter that I have to keep secret. Unless you want the world to know...
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