Post by Crawdaunt PWNS! on Oct 7, 2009 11:03:25 GMT -5
I just can't stand being with her anymore. Don't get me wrong, I really do still love her, avec after almost 3 years, but she is extremely possessive and jealous. Her jealousy crossed the line in my, and all of my friend's opinion. It's the reason I'd like to break up with her.
The problem is, she has no problem when I go see my friends. However, she forbids me to see ANY of my lady friends, outside of college. I was fine with that 2 years ago, since I wanted to spend my life with her, but now that I'm back in college after almost 2 years of absence, I made quite a bit of friends ( one 4 weeks ago, 1 two weeks ago and 2 last week) 3 of those are girls. I would really like to be able to see them OUTSIDE of school, but with my GF (who wants to see me EVERYDAY), it's just not possible. She said something like ''You have your job, you have college, and you have me! You don't have time to see any other b!tches (she calls every single lady friend of mine a b!tch)'' Funny though, I strangely have time to see my ''guys'' friends.
That's what I can't stand anymore. I dunno how to break up with her. Cheating on her would be the easiest, of course, but like I mentioned, I do still love her, and don't want to cause her pain... beside, if I do cheat on her, it will be a world of pain for ME. I tried to ask her to let me see them, she always refuse, thinking I would cheat on her, even though it's not the case. She won't listen to me at all.
Any suggestion? BTW, telling me to calmly tell her I want our relationld of pain to me as well >_>
The problem is, she has no problem when I go see my friends. However, she forbids me to see ANY of my lady friends, outside of college. I was fine with that 2 years ago, since I wanted to spend my life with her, but now that I'm back in college after almost 2 years of absence, I made quite a bit of friends ( one 4 weeks ago, 1 two weeks ago and 2 last week) 3 of those are girls. I would really like to be able to see them OUTSIDE of school, but with my GF (who wants to see me EVERYDAY), it's just not possible. She said something like ''You have your job, you have college, and you have me! You don't have time to see any other b!tches (she calls every single lady friend of mine a b!tch)'' Funny though, I strangely have time to see my ''guys'' friends.
That's what I can't stand anymore. I dunno how to break up with her. Cheating on her would be the easiest, of course, but like I mentioned, I do still love her, and don't want to cause her pain... beside, if I do cheat on her, it will be a world of pain for ME. I tried to ask her to let me see them, she always refuse, thinking I would cheat on her, even though it's not the case. She won't listen to me at all.
Any suggestion? BTW, telling me to calmly tell her I want our relationld of pain to me as well >_>
